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Review
Sometimes God leads us into valleys—those hard, in-between places—because they’re the only spaces where we’ll truly learn to trust Him. And when He leads us there, He doesn’t leave us. He stays, loves, and gently opens our eyes to His goodness.

In Ruth 3, Ruth and Naomi remain in such a valley—a time of waiting, grieving, and hoping. They are in transition, living between deep loss and a glimmer of something new.

Boaz, a man of integrity and compassion, is a kinsman redeemer—someone within the family line who could provide protection, restore land, and in some cases, marry a widow so the family name would continue.

Having already shown kindness to Ruth and Naomi, Boaz becomes the focus of Naomi’s careful plan. She encourages Ruth to approach him discreetly, which Ruth does—at night, with humility and courage—asking him to consider taking on the role of redeemer.

To modern ears, this approach may sound unusual or even bold. Some suggest Ruth was proposing marriage. More likely, she was taking a culturally appropriate and careful step, guided by Naomi, in a way that would preserve dignity for both if Boaz said no.

This moment isn’t about romance or ambition. Ruth could’ve pursued a younger man, as Boaz noted. But instead, we see a beautiful web of selfless care: Naomi for Ruth, Ruth for Naomi, and Boaz for them both. No one in the story knows what’s next—but each one acts with love, not self-interest.

What if we did the same?

Reminder

It’s not about thinking less of ourselves, but thinking of ourselves less. That shift in mindset opens our hearts to see God’s grace breaking through—and His invitation to join Him in His redeeming work.

Reflect 

Where in your life right now might God be leading you through a valley—and what might He be inviting you to learn or see more clearly about Him there?

In what relationships or situations can you intentionally shift from self-focus to selfless care, like Ruth, Naomi, and Boaz?

How does your understanding of God’s redeeming work grow when you witness—or practice—humble obedience and quiet faithfulness?

Respond 

This week, identify one opportunity to quietly serve or support someone else without expecting recognition, simply out of love and trust that God is at work through it.

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Review: Ruth 3  – Additional Scriptures:  Ruth 2:11-13; John 14
Read ahead: Ruth 4:1-12